Gender and Family
Discrimination against Woman
For years, women have been viewed as the weaker sex. They are seen as less capable compared to men and have suffered different kinds of discriminations. Women in less developed countries may face violence or be force into sex trade. Women in developed nations are luckier but still, they are usually paid less compared to men and do not have equal job opportunities. Up till now, there have been several organizations like Nations Development Fund for Women (UNIFEM) and National Organization for Women (NOW) working hard to achieve gender equality, but still the problem persists.
Song of an African Woman
I have only one request.
I do not ask for money
Although I have need of it,
I do not ask for meat . . .
I have only one request,And all I ask is
That you remove
The road block
From my path.
From the Acholi poem, Song of Lawino
Okot p’Bitek
In Africa, around 54 percent of girls do not have the chance to enter primary school education, and for those who do, very small number can even reach the fifth grade (The Hunger Project). This shows the serious problem of gender inequality in the third world countries.
Women in developed nations on the other hand, suffered a different form of discrimination. They are indeed given opportunities to attain high education level and to get a good job but they get lower pay compared to men. On top of that, they have to manage family and household problems (doing housework, taking care of children etc). Despite doing more than what a man is doing, generally they are still viewed as the weaker gender, especially in more conservative societies like Japan.
I feel that the root of such problems is that there is no common understanding that as men and women, we are each capable of different things, neither one is more superior to the other. We are indeed different and because of these differences, one cannot do without the other. Just like both man and woman are required to produce a child, a society without women will be impossible to survive and the same goes for one without men. We each have different abilities, like men are indeed stronger physically while women are more sensitive and better with the details. Due to such differences, we complement with each other.
We should also recognise the fact that absolute equality is impossible. Two things that are different can never be equal. Certain jobs will prefer women while certain jobs will need men, and the fact that men can never give birth to children enhances the fact that absolute equality can never be achieve.
Also, it is unavoidable that women are deemed as the weaker sex in the third world countries. Due to the fact that they are not as developed yet, most of the people do laborious tasks to earn a living, hence women, being weaker than men physically will be on the losing end. They will be seen as less ‘useful’ as they will not be as productive as men doing such jobs and thus are expected to stay at home to feed the children. To solve the problem of gender inequality in such countries like Africa, we will have to first solve the problem of poverty and undevelopment. It is only when the conditions of their lifestyle improve will the people receive more education and hence learn to be concern about issues like gender equality. With hunger at hand, who will care if women and men are equal or not?
Reference:
1: http://www.thp.org/women/status.htm - Web Source